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Dave Grossman is a retired Army Lt. Col. now teaching psychology at West Point, and writing. He developed a theory widely embraced by our military and domestic security forces concerning the "sheepdog" mentality.
Video Quick Study (1:40) Dave Grossman speaking on being a sheepdog.
Video Quick Study (2:02) Dave Grossman on being sheepdog and talks about his books. Very interesting to hear how he expresses his convictions. Listen to his tone of voice. This is the tone I have heard -- soft, controlled, respectful -- in the men and women whom I know to be combat-hardened, lethal sheepdogs; it's remarkably consistent.
I first ran across the sheepdog theory at the Writers' Police Academy 2013. I found it interesting that sheepdogs were discussed by both retired Secret Service Agent Mike Roche Blog Link in our class on Mass Killing and again the same day in our SWAT class taught by Dr. Scott Silverii, Chief of Police, Thibodaux, Louisianna.
Dr. Silverii included Grossman's theory in his doctoral dissertation A Darker Shade of Blue which is available on Amazon as a scholarly work, (which I found paradigm shifting). Amazon Link
This information will soon be available in a less academic version January 29th 2014.
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According to Grossman, there are three kinds of people: The sheep, the wolf, and the sheepdog.
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The SHEEP
* Create 98% of society* Have empathy
* Do not harm others purposefully only accidentally
* Generally follow laws
* Generally non-violent
* Seek security behind the sheepdog
* Will run scared (stampede) with the herd
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The WOLVES
* 1% of society* Criminal
* Predatory mental health issues such as sociopaths or psychopaths
* Driven by instinct
* Capacity for violence
* Lack empathy
* Prey on sheep (general society)
The natural predator for the societal wolf is the sheepdog.
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The SHEEPDOG
* 1% of society* Natural warriors
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predators
* Society likes to hide behind the sheepdog - they
know they are safe
* Society does not like sheepdogs because the
sheepdog reminds people that wolves exist.
* Sheepdogs feel marginalized by
society - they do not feel like they
fit in.
* Tend to seek out other
sheepdogs, both for work and for
personal time, in whose company
they feel understood and their
lifestyle affirmed. This was a theme
that was very important in Silverii's The Darker Shade of Blue. As the sheepdogs become more
acculturated and entrenched in their own society, it is harder for them to feel empathy for the masses
(sheep), to develop lasting relationships, especially healthy marriages, and to interact with the community at
large.
* Driven by instinct
* Capacity for violence
* Maintains empathy, though according to Silverii, this diminishes over time as the sheepdog becomes more
entrenched/socialized in the norms of their work cultural especially at the level of the Special Operations
Groups, SOG, such as SWAT and undercover work.
Video Quick Study (3:14)
Usually sheepdog stick together
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Both the wolf and the sheepdog kill but the difference is the intent.
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But let's contemplate the idea of grey boundaries. I would call myself a secondary sheepdog. I have been in enough life situations that I know that I don't mind running in to help -- be it a medical or survival emergency or fighting with a criminal hurting someone. BUT I would prefer a true sheepdog (with trained skills, equipment, and backup) to stand firm. If there's no one else, I'll rise to the challenge. And if it is one of my kids? We are talking a whole other dynamic. Grizzly mama on steroids with a bad case of rabies (yup, that's your warning) will show her fangs. Endangered kids are the go-ballistic hot button for most parents, fictional or not.
So contemplate your character and find their switch.
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I always find it interesting when I think I understand a character and then circumstances forces them to act "otherwise." Maybe your presumed superhero-of-a-boyfriend goes all scared-sheep on your five-foot tall, hundred-pound heroine, and she ends up having to save the day. A friend of mine's eighteen-year-old daughter, who matches the description for an itty-bitty heroine, watched her boyfriend being attacked by ten frat boys for about a nano-second before she went ape-shit and hospitalized three of them. The other seven ran away. Granted, she is a third degree black belt, but the odds were not in her favor. A non-sheepdog by nature, something internal had to go off so that she would express this side of her warrior personality.
What if your sweet beta male must drop his pacifist stance to save the day and wins the girl right out of the arms of hunky-dude-turned-sheep? Good! We all liked him better anyway, and then beta-boy and his unattainable heartthrob can live happily ever after.
When your hero/heroine acts uncharacteristically, it will necessarily change the dynamic of your characters' relationship. The larger the threat the larger the shift.What happens to their relationship afterwards? Definite plot twisting capabilities.
The sheepdog theory is a fun one to play around with. Happy writing.